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How to do birthdays when one is missing [View all]
Preston and Maddie will be 2 in March and I am wondering how to do their birthday party. I would like to honor Hayden in some way also even if it is j
momofbbgtripletJan-10-08 11:06 AM
by Catw3kittens
41363
Replies to this topic:
RE: How to do birthdays when one is missing, Jane_p, Jan 09th 2008, #1
RE: How to do birthdays when one is missing, Catw3kittens, Jan 09th 2008, #2
RE: How to do birthdays when one is missing, mndanm, Jan 09th 2008, #3
RE: How to do birthdays when one is missing, Catw3kittens, Jan 10th 2008, #4

Grieving fathers [View all]
It a way TC is mostly a mommy place but for those of you who have angles in heaven , how did daddy cope? I want to find somewhere for my DH because I
feistylioness78Dec-31-07 12:00 AM
by steff
11552
Replies to this topic:
RE: Grieving fathers, steff, Dec 31st 2007, #1

Good News for One of Our Members [View all]
One of our members lost two of her three triplet boys in January of 2004, just a couple of weeks after I delivered my babies. She has been a dear fri
Catw3kittensDec-28-07 08:34 AM
by steff
21912
Replies to this topic:
RE: Good News for One of Our Members, rruvalcaba, Dec 27th 2007, #1
RE: Good News for One of Our Members, steff, Dec 28th 2007, #2

Warmest wishes [View all]
during this Holiday season. Many of us will have our first Christmas without our sweet babies in our arms - myself included. I pray that you continu
andrealynneDec-27-07 07:33 PM
by rruvalcaba
81671
Replies to this topic:
RE: Warmest wishes, smh0369, Dec 21st 2007, #1
RE: Warmest wishes, thebrg, Dec 21st 2007, #2
      RE: Warmest wishes, momofbbgtriplet, Dec 24th 2007, #3
      RE: Warmest wishes, feistylioness78, Dec 25th 2007, #4
      RE: Warmest wishes, smh0369, Dec 26th 2007, #5
           RE: Warmest wishes, thebrg, Dec 26th 2007, #6
                RE: Warmest wishes, thebrg, Dec 26th 2007, #7
RE: Warmest wishes, rruvalcaba, Dec 27th 2007, #8

It's THAT time of year ... [View all]
Four years ago today was the last time I know my oldest (or would be) child was alive. Within two weeks it was all over for our biological triplets.
steffDec-27-07 03:15 PM
by Catw3kittens
51547
Replies to this topic:
RE: It's THAT time of year ..., lodyp, Dec 24th 2007, #1
RE: It's THAT time of year ..., steff, Dec 24th 2007, #2
RE: It's THAT time of year ..., Catw3kittens, Dec 26th 2007, #3
RE: It's THAT time of year ..., steff, Dec 26th 2007, #4
      RE: It's THAT time of year ..., Catw3kittens, Dec 27th 2007, #5

Christmas traditions for lost baby? [View all]
Does anyone have any good ideas for Christmas traditions for the baby that didn't survive? I feel like we should do something to honor/remember him e
shamandaDec-26-07 09:29 PM
by Homeschoolmom
71923
Replies to this topic:
RE: Christmas traditions for lost baby?, Mameervilemom, Nov 25th 2007, #1
RE: Christmas traditions for lost baby?, Davina Greer, Nov 30th 2007, #2
RE: Christmas traditions for lost baby?, momofbbgtriplet, Dec 01st 2007, #3
RE: Christmas traditions for lost baby?, lodyp, Dec 14th 2007, #5
RE: Christmas traditions for lost baby?, MonsterMom6, Dec 10th 2007, #4
RE: Christmas traditions for lost baby?, 7mozzas, Dec 21st 2007, #6
RE: Christmas traditions for lost baby?, Homeschoolmom, Dec 26th 2007, #7

Please keep my friend in your prayers! [View all]
I met a woman on the triplet connection and we started writing via email. She deliverd early, I think around 28 weeks (12/16) and one of the babies pa
Billysgirl10604Dec-26-07 09:11 PM
by feistylioness78
11328
Replies to this topic:
RE: Please keep my friend in your prayers!, feistylioness78, Dec 26th 2007, #1

Surviving the NICU after a loss [View all]
We are going on 7 weeks in the NICU, 6 since we lost our little Hadley. I'm starting to feel like I will lose my mind if we are there much longer. I
jw27Dec-21-07 08:01 PM
by mythreemiracles
92202
Replies to this topic:
RE: Surviving the NICU after a loss, thebrg, Nov 29th 2007, #1
RE: Surviving the NICU after a loss, Catw3kittens, Nov 29th 2007, #2
RE: Surviving the NICU after a loss, feistylioness78, Dec 02nd 2007, #3
RE: Surviving the NICU after a loss, jw27, Dec 04th 2007, #5
      RE: Surviving the NICU after a loss, feistylioness78, Dec 05th 2007, #7
RE: Surviving the NICU after a loss, shamanda, Dec 03rd 2007, #4
RE: Surviving the NICU after a loss, jw27, Dec 04th 2007, #6
      RE: Surviving the NICU after a loss, shamanda, Dec 05th 2007, #8
           RE: Surviving the NICU after a loss, mythreemiracles, Dec 21st 2007, #9

Cousin delivered twins at 23 weeks [View all]
The 2 girls are in the NICU, but there are problems, mom knows the reality of the situation. However she is asking me for advise and want to compare
LucindaDec-03-07 05:32 PM
by shamanda
62053
Replies to this topic:
RE: Cousin delivered twins at 23 weeks, Davina Greer, Nov 30th 2007, #1
RE: Cousin delivered twins at 23 weeks, Catw3kittens, Nov 30th 2007, #2
RE: Cousin delivered twins at 23 weeks, thebrg, Nov 30th 2007, #3
RE: Cousin delivered twins at 23 weeks, momofbbgtriplet, Dec 01st 2007, #4
RE: Cousin delivered twins at 23 weeks, debteach1, Dec 01st 2007, #5
RE: Cousin delivered twins at 23 weeks, shamanda, Dec 03rd 2007, #6

Yesterday was sooo hard and I know you understand [View all]
Thank you all for the wonderful posts and messages. I can't tell you how much your kind words mean to me. It just really sucks that last week I burrie
rruvalcabaDec-03-07 01:48 PM
by Davina Greer
62005
Replies to this topic:
RE: Yesterday was sooo hard and I know you understand, thebrg, Nov 27th 2007, #1
RE: Yesterday was sooo hard and I know you understand, momofbbgtriplet, Nov 28th 2007, #2
RE: Yesterday was sooo hard and I know you understand, mw, Nov 28th 2007, #3
RE: Yesterday was sooo hard and I know you understand, Catw3kittens, Nov 29th 2007, #4
RE: Yesterday was sooo hard and I know you understand, rruvalcaba, Nov 30th 2007, #5
      RE: Yesterday was sooo hard and I know you understand, Davina Greer, Dec 03rd 2007, #6

Now what, another loss after loss, feeling hopeless [View all]
Most of you know that last year 11/26/06 my beautiful triplets were born at 25weeks4days and none survived after 11 days of life. Trying again was the
rruvalcabaNov-29-07 03:03 PM
by Catw3kittens
163249
Replies to this topic:
RE: Now what, another loss after loss, feeling hopeless, JaneRuth, Nov 17th 2007, #1
RE: Now what, another loss after loss, feeling hopeless, debteach1, Nov 17th 2007, #2
RE: Now what, another loss after loss, feeling hopeless, thebrg, Nov 17th 2007, #3
RE: Now what, another loss after loss, feeling hopeless, rruvalcaba, Nov 18th 2007, #5
RE: Now what, another loss after loss, feeling hopeless, mndanm, Nov 17th 2007, #4
RE: Now what, another loss after loss, feeling hopeless, debteach1, Nov 18th 2007, #6
RE: Now what, another loss after loss, feeling hopeless, feistylioness78, Nov 18th 2007, #7
RE: Now what, another loss after loss, feeling hopeless, momofbbgtriplet, Nov 19th 2007, #8
RE: Now what, another loss after loss, feeling hopeless, Catw3kittens, Nov 19th 2007, #9
RE: Now what, another loss after loss, feeling hopeless, Davina Greer, Nov 19th 2007, #10
RE: Now what, another loss after loss, feeling hopeless, rruvalcaba, Nov 19th 2007, #11
RE: Now what, another loss after loss, feeling hopeless, smh0369, Nov 21st 2007, #12
RE: Now what, another loss after loss, feeling hopeless, rruvalcaba, Nov 21st 2007, #13
      RE: Now what, another loss after loss, feeling hopeless, thebrg, Nov 21st 2007, #14
      RE: Now what, another loss after loss, feeling hopeless, andrealynne, Nov 26th 2007, #15
      RE: Now what, another loss after loss, feeling hopeless, Catw3kittens, Nov 29th 2007, #16

Morrison sextuplets - is Sylas still doing ok? [View all]
Has anyone heard anything about the last surviving Morrison sextuplet? I think Sylas Christopher is his name, and I hope he is still doing well. I u
andrealynneNov-29-07 09:26 AM
by JaneRuth
21945
Replies to this topic:
RE: Morrison sextuplets - is Sylas still doing ok?, MonsterMom6, Nov 29th 2007, #1
RE: Morrison sextuplets - is Sylas still doing ok?, JaneRuth, Nov 29th 2007, #2

I want my son [View all]
I want my son. I want him here with our family. We lost him in utero in December 2004, and so we never got to meet him. As my boys grow - one big m
Michelle2005Nov-17-07 08:05 PM
by feistylioness78
71986
Replies to this topic:
RE: I want my son, feistylioness78, Oct 30th 2007, #1
RE: I want my son, mw, Oct 30th 2007, #2
RE: I want my son, Catw3kittens, Nov 02nd 2007, #3
RE: I want my son, Davina Greer, Nov 14th 2007, #4
      RE: I want my son, feistylioness78, Nov 14th 2007, #5
           RE: I want my son, Heidi Marie, Nov 15th 2007, #6
                RE: I want my son, feistylioness78, Nov 17th 2007, #7

still so angry [View all]
I just saw a picture of beautiful quads on the photo forum. i am so happy for the family. but my first and lasting emotion is anger. I am so angry
Heidi MarieNov-15-07 09:59 PM
by eejrn
11692
Replies to this topic:
RE: still so angry, eejrn, Nov 15th 2007, #1

Finally able to post [View all]
We had our triplets on 10-9-07 and lost our little Hadley on 10-11-07. It happened so quickly, they babies were born at almost 29 weeks and all three
jw27Nov-14-07 10:57 PM
by feistylioness78
52096
Replies to this topic:
RE: Finally able to post, Jane_p, Nov 01st 2007, #1
RE: Finally able to post, shamanda, Nov 03rd 2007, #2
RE: Finally able to post, feistylioness78, Nov 11th 2007, #3
      RE: Finally able to post, Davina Greer, Nov 14th 2007, #4
           RE: Finally able to post, feistylioness78, Nov 14th 2007, #5

I feel like a failed. [View all]
Despite four doses of medication to stop contractions, I delivered my trio on Sunday Nov 4 . Alex Joseph was 1.2, his twin Brennan Tyler was 1.1, and
feistylioness78Nov-14-07 10:46 PM
by feistylioness78
122486
Replies to this topic:
RE: I feel like a failed., mw, Nov 11th 2007, #1
RE: I feel like a failed., feistylioness78, Nov 11th 2007, #2
RE: I feel like a failed., mndanm, Nov 12th 2007, #3
RE: I feel like a failed., thebrg, Nov 12th 2007, #4
RE: I feel like a failed., momofbbgtriplet, Nov 13th 2007, #5
      RE: I feel like a failed., feistylioness78, Nov 14th 2007, #10
RE: I feel like a failed., toddlerstimes3, Nov 13th 2007, #6
RE: I feel like a failed., jw27, Nov 13th 2007, #7
RE: I feel like a failed., feistylioness78, Nov 14th 2007, #12
RE: I feel like a failed., shamanda, Nov 13th 2007, #8
RE: I feel like a failed., Michelle2005, Nov 14th 2007, #9
RE: I feel like a failed., Davina Greer, Nov 14th 2007, #11

refusing to give up [View all]
I'm new to posting, but have been reading in the general section for weeks. Really since we found out we were pg with triplets. We found out we were p
mamajennNov-14-07 02:55 PM
by Davina Greer
123393
Replies to this topic:
RE: refusing to give up, karalind, Sep 23rd 2007, #1
RE: refusing to give up, MonsterMom6, Sep 23rd 2007, #2
RE: refusing to give up, love my kids, Sep 24th 2007, #3
RE: refusing to give up, mamajenn, Sep 27th 2007, #4
RE: refusing to give up, MonsterMom6, Sep 27th 2007, #5
RE: refusing to give up, momofbbgtriplet, Sep 28th 2007, #6
RE: refusing to give up, mw, Sep 28th 2007, #7
RE: refusing to give up, rruvalcaba, Sep 29th 2007, #8
RE: refusing to give up, feistylioness78, Oct 27th 2007, #9
RE: refusing to give up, holstroma, Nov 01st 2007, #10
RE: refusing to give up, holstroma, Nov 01st 2007, #11
      RE: refusing to give up, Davina Greer, Nov 14th 2007, #12

What do you tell people? [View all]
We lost our Spencer (19 days old) last week and now have two beautiful, thriving babies left. I know in my heart I'll always be a mom of TRIPLETS, bu
shamandaNov-14-07 02:42 PM
by Davina Greer
92000
Replies to this topic:
RE: What do you tell people?, Jane_p, Oct 15th 2007, #1
RE: What do you tell people?, momofbbgtriplet, Oct 15th 2007, #2
      RE: What do you tell people?, shamanda, Oct 15th 2007, #3
           RE: What do you tell people?, steff, Oct 15th 2007, #4
RE: What do you tell people?, mndanm, Oct 16th 2007, #5
RE: What do you tell people?, Catw3kittens, Oct 22nd 2007, #6
RE: What do you tell people?, feistylioness78, Oct 27th 2007, #7
RE: What do you tell people?, jw27, Oct 31st 2007, #8
RE: What do you tell people?, Davina Greer, Nov 14th 2007, #9

Bereavement Photography [View all]
For anyone who has experienced the loss of a child, or may be losing a child, please consider bereavement photography. There are several organization
Michelle2005Nov-14-07 12:40 AM01235

infant urn? [View all]
Does anyone know a good place to get a non-cheesy infant urn? We ordered a small metal heart shaped urn for Spencer, and when it arrived today they i
shamandaOct-27-07 07:55 PM
by feistylioness78
41645
Replies to this topic:
RE: infant urn?, Mameervilemom, Oct 20th 2007, #1
RE: infant urn?, thebrg, Oct 21st 2007, #2
RE: infant urn?, andrealynne, Oct 22nd 2007, #3
      RE: infant urn?, feistylioness78, Oct 27th 2007, #4

Happy Birthday to my survivors... [View all]
I know it's not the photo forum, but I wanted to share a couple pics of my babies for their 4th birthday... If anyone wants them, I have the shirts
MameervilemomOct-27-07 04:46 PM
by Mameervilemom
61581
Replies to this topic:
RE: Happy Birthday to my survivors..., JaneRuth, Oct 21st 2007, #1
RE: Happy Birthday to my survivors..., Mameervilemom, Oct 27th 2007, #4
RE: Happy Birthday to my survivors..., Catw3kittens, Oct 22nd 2007, #2
RE: Happy Birthday to my survivors..., Mameervilemom, Oct 27th 2007, #5
RE: Happy Birthday to my survivors..., rruvalcaba, Oct 27th 2007, #3
RE: Happy Birthday to my survivors..., Mameervilemom, Oct 27th 2007, #6

Lost one of our boys at 21 weeks [View all]
We went in for a growth scan this morning and Triplet A had no heartbeat. They said it was probably his placenta or cord that had caused it. The oth
Cunningham5Oct-27-07 11:09 AM
by rruvalcaba
51503
Replies to this topic:
RE: Lost one of our boys at 21 weeks, k3triplets, Oct 25th 2007, #1
RE: Lost one of our boys at 21 weeks, lucky us, Oct 25th 2007, #2
RE: Lost one of our boys at 21 weeks, Cunningham5, Oct 25th 2007, #3
RE: Lost one of our boys at 21 weeks, shamanda, Oct 25th 2007, #4
RE: Lost one of our boys at 21 weeks, rruvalcaba, Oct 27th 2007, #5

How do you prepare yourself? [View all]
I am on here a little too soon but I needed advice. I am almost 24 wks pregnant with indenticals and a singleton. I have been told since early on that
feistylioness78Oct-23-07 04:07 PM
by feistylioness78
62046
Replies to this topic:
RE: How do you prepare yourself?, MonsterMom6, Oct 12th 2007, #1
RE: How do you prepare yourself?, mw, Oct 12th 2007, #2
RE: How do you prepare yourself?, shamanda, Oct 15th 2007, #3
RE: How do you prepare yourself?, feistylioness78, Oct 16th 2007, #4
      RE: How do you prepare yourself?, Catw3kittens, Oct 22nd 2007, #5
           RE: How do you prepare yourself?, feistylioness78, Oct 23rd 2007, #6

what do you do now? responses needed [View all]
I was caught off guard when one of the nurses asked if we were having a service. We hadnt thought about it. We assumed we would do something privately
mamajennOct-22-07 10:56 PM
by Catw3kittens
61919
Replies to this topic:
RE: what do you do now? responses needed, steff, Sep 27th 2007, #1
RE: what do you do now? responses needed, momofbbgtriplet, Sep 28th 2007, #2
RE: what do you do now? responses needed, rruvalcaba, Sep 29th 2007, #3
RE: what do you do now? responses needed, mw, Sep 30th 2007, #4
RE: what do you do now? responses needed, Jane_p, Oct 07th 2007, #5
RE: what do you do now? responses needed, Catw3kittens, Oct 22nd 2007, #6

I lost one baby last night [View all]
We lost our baby Spencer last night. Everything happened so fast; he got an intenstinal infection yesterday morning and it took over. His intest
shamandaOct-22-07 10:43 PM
by Catw3kittens
71713
Replies to this topic:
RE: I lost one baby last night, MonsterMom6, Oct 09th 2007, #1
RE: I lost one baby last night, rruvalcaba, Oct 11th 2007, #2
RE: I lost one baby last night, Mameervilemom, Oct 13th 2007, #3
RE: I lost one baby last night, shamanda, Oct 15th 2007, #5
RE: I lost one baby last night, Jane_p, Oct 15th 2007, #4
RE: I lost one baby last night, mndanm, Oct 16th 2007, #6
RE: I lost one baby last night, Catw3kittens, Oct 22nd 2007, #7

BEREAVED 3 WEEKS AGO [View all]
Hi everyone I had my triplets on 5th September 06. I found out during the pregnancy at 22 weeks that one of our boys had hypoplastic left heart synd
KerriOct-10-07 03:58 PM
by k_serasera
42828
Replies to this topic:
RE: BEREAVED 3 WEEKS AGO, mw, May 30th 2007, #1
RE: BEREAVED 3 WEEKS AGO, Kerri, Jun 03rd 2007, #7
RE: BEREAVED 3 WEEKS AGO, mndanm, May 30th 2007, #2
RE: BEREAVED 3 WEEKS AGO, Kerri, Jun 03rd 2007, #8
      RE: BEREAVED 3 WEEKS AGO, Kerri, Jun 03rd 2007, #9
RE: BEREAVED 3 WEEKS AGO, lsmiller, May 31st 2007, #3
RE: BEREAVED 3 WEEKS AGO, Kerri, Jun 03rd 2007, #10
RE: BEREAVED 3 WEEKS AGO, JaneRuth, Jun 01st 2007, #4
RE: BEREAVED 3 WEEKS AGO, Kerri, Jun 03rd 2007, #11
RE: BEREAVED 3 WEEKS AGO, rruvalcaba, Jun 01st 2007, #5
RE: BEREAVED 3 WEEKS AGO, Kerri, Jun 03rd 2007, #12
RE: BEREAVED 3 WEEKS AGO, karalind, Jun 02nd 2007, #6
RE: BEREAVED 3 WEEKS AGO, Kerri, Jun 03rd 2007, #13
RE: BEREAVED 3 WEEKS AGO, k_serasera, Oct 10th 2007, #15

10 weeks and feeling hopeful, but some people can make ... [View all]
Well, I'm 10 whole weeks now and My husband and I went for our first OB visit. He thinks I was a little hard on them but this time around I'm not stan
rruvalcabaSep-22-07 02:22 AM
by Catw3kittens
62226
Replies to this topic:
RE: 10 weeks and feeling hopeful, but some people can m..., thebrg, Sep 11th 2007, #1
RE: 10 weeks and feeling hopeful, but some people can m..., rruvalcaba, Sep 16th 2007, #4
RE: 10 weeks and feeling hopeful, but some people can m..., karalind, Sep 12th 2007, #2
RE: 10 weeks and feeling hopeful, but some people can m..., rruvalcaba, Sep 16th 2007, #3
      RE: 10 weeks and feeling hopeful, but some people can m..., karalind, Sep 18th 2007, #5
RE: 10 weeks and feeling hopeful, but some people can m..., Catw3kittens, Sep 22nd 2007, #6

The Time is Here to Decide and Act [View all]
Well, the day arrived. The girls came home from preschool today to explain that there was a set of triplets at their preschool, so now there is a set
steffSep-22-07 02:15 AM
by Catw3kittens
31912
Replies to this topic:
RE: The Time is Here to Decide and Act, mw, Sep 20th 2007, #1
RE: The Time is Here to Decide and Act, rruvalcaba, Sep 21st 2007, #2
RE: The Time is Here to Decide and Act, Catw3kittens, Sep 22nd 2007, #3

Writing a card to remember the loss of a son [View all]
I am horrible with writing my thoughts and feeling into words. My aunt lost her only son last year at the age of 23. It was an ATV accident and he d
babysmommy_2004Sep-18-07 12:20 PM
by Jane_p
41537
Replies to this topic:
RE: Writing a card to remember the loss of a son, thebrg, Sep 17th 2007, #1
RE: Writing a card to remember the loss of a son, MonsterMom6, Sep 17th 2007, #2
RE: Writing a card to remember the loss of a son, babysmommy_2004, Sep 17th 2007, #3
RE: Writing a card to remember the loss of a son, Jane_p, Sep 18th 2007, #4

Micro preemie burial items... [View all]
I donated my first set of micro preemie burial items. I am just a beginner sewer/knitter so I am so excited how they turned out. If you want to see th
thebrgSep-16-07 09:30 AM
by Grandma28
72520
Replies to this topic:
RE: Micro preemie burial items..., andrealynne, Aug 02nd 2007, #1
RE: Micro preemie burial items..., andrealynne, Aug 02nd 2007, #2
      RE: Micro preemie burial items..., thebrg, Aug 02nd 2007, #3
RE: Micro preemie burial items..., rruvalcaba, Aug 02nd 2007, #4
RE: Micro preemie burial items..., Catw3kittens, Aug 16th 2007, #5
RE: Micro preemie burial items..., love my kids, Sep 05th 2007, #6
RE: Micro preemie burial items..., Grandma28, Sep 16th 2007, #7
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