Beatrice, I am so sorry for what you are going through. To have to think about divorce during one of the most stressful times of your life must be overwhelming. Our babies are 7 mo old and dh and I have had our moments, but it sounds like this is a long standing issue for you guys. I know my dh would like me to lose weight and in the past it has sometimes been more of an issue, but in the last few years he has been so supportive. I am the one who complains now about the changes in my body since the babies--he continues to tell me he loves me and that would not change no matter how much weight I gained. Maybe he realized that if he wants any activity involving this body, it is in his best interest for me to feel as attractive as possible! There was a time in our marriage where this would not have been the case, and I can't imagine the stress of triplets during that time--it is enough now!

Is there any chance of marriage counseling? That helped us alot a number of years ago.

Sonya, Mommy to:

Tyler 8-15-01
Amanda 5-23-03
Leah 5-23-03
Trevor 5-23-03