Krista,
I always offer to babysit for my friends kids. I agree I pretty much feel the same way, at this point what is 1 more kid for a few hours. Unfortunately, I usually dont get the same offers. I do luckily have 1 terrific friend my daughter's godmother), her daughteris 5 weeks younger than my 3 (we call them our quad). She has babysat for me on numerous occassions and has even offered to take my kids for a weekend (I'm not ready yet). We are all going to disney in NOv. So their are people who wont treat you any differently, but there are also people who are totally overwhelmed by us
Tara