I agree with Tasha. I remember reading some of those posts and seeing the ones I agreed with get pulled or even worse get kicked off the boards when their opinion was different then what the Mods wanted. Then the people who really needed to stop were left here to cause more drama. I didn't understand really why people would want some of the most incredible women who gave me the most sane advice to leave or be forced to leave. We are adults here, stand up for yourselfs and don't go running to the Mods. That is what got me to stop really posting and just lurking here once in awhile.

The archives here is valuable knowledge that saved me when I was pregnant and when my babies first arrived. But I feel like the luckiest one as I followed those "women" where they went and formed bonds with them and like the nononse and non-filtering way they tell it. Now my kids are six I realize it never gets easier it always just gets different. I want the truth on raising triplets and this board doesn't allow that. I want to be called out when offer up some BS and cheered on when I need it. I don't want it censored, I am a grownup that can stand up for myself and realize I don't have to go along with the majority just because. I don't want to have people kicked off for telling you what it and how it is. It is a shame because those same ruthless Mom's are now my suppourt, my friends and my go to source. I found my place I hope others find theirs.

Thank you TC for allowing me to meet such fabulous outspoken women and friends and for that I will be forever grateful!

Born 6/19/05 @ 32 Weeks
Kylie Mae 2lbs 13oz
Ashby Ray 3lbs 5oz
Eadan Sean 3lbs 2oz