Okay this sounds so stupid but I can't figure out what to do. One of my boys is potty trained but I have to physically push his "birdie"as we call it and hold it the whole time he is peeing or he will completely soak his pants. He is too short to teach how to stand and pee and honestly I don't think he would really "get" the aiming thing anyways. I tried "tucking" the birdie in and closing his legs and the pee won't come over the top but I noticed the back of his pants are soaking wet still because the pee comes straight through the spot where the toilet seat meets the toilet. I really would like him to be able to go slightly more independently like my daughter does but it will be a mess. I don't know if it is his anatomy If you know what I mean or what because I have talked to other parents of boys and they didn't seem to have the same issues. They will be starting pre-K next year and have to be completely potty trained and I'm pretty sure the teacher isn't going to hold his birdie down for him Any advice would be appreciated.

On a side note my other son is very stubborn and refuses to go on the potty. He will have to be completely trained before September when he goes to school, too. Do you think I should get a little more hard core on him now to push him to do it, or would you wait until the summer right before he goes to school to get more hard core. We are moving in about a month, then moving in with inlaws for 6 weeks until we finally make it into our new house in middle of June. My thought was to wait until we are in our new house and just push the potty training, my only problem with that is if he resists and won't do it, he will be the only one not gonig to school in September. Any thoughts?

Thanks, sorry for the long post.

JILL MOM TO
KOURTNEY 3 LBS 1 OZ
KEEGAN 2 LBS 1 OZ
KARVER 1 LB 10 OZ
10/4/08 @ 29 weeks