Hi Joy-

I would agree with what the other ladies have said....maybe the kids need a more "traditional" timeout..without the cozy corner.

I feel your pain though. Mine are also 3 1/2 years old and recently we have been having alot and I mean ALOT of behavior issues. And mine aren't in a full time daycare..I do utilize an hourly stay and play type place sometimes for two of them and the other is in preschool at the local elementary and wow...I get the same type of comments. They are unfocused, bossy, talk back, "bother" their peers, etc.
I just said to my hubby the other day, "Hey..I thought that 4 years old was the magic age....I dont' think we are going to make it to 4!"...
It's been rough. My kids just laugh and laugh when we do discipline especially when they are around each other..they just don't seem to get the message.

Just wanted to tell you...I'm right there with you...

Cindy

BGB born November 6, 2008 at 33 weeks and 3 days
Ryan Patrick 4 lbs 10 oz
Noelle Alyssa 4 lbs 8 oz
Evan Christopher 4 lbs 10 oz

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