How about debating the merits of permitting infants/small children to listen to various kinds of music, such as classical, jazz, rap, heavy metal, etc.? My neighbor across the street sees nothing wrong with her children & toddler listening to Eminem. My opinion is quite the opposite, especially since they are not exposed to other kinds of music than rap.

But seriously, Lorraine, I hear you when you say it's frustrating when people get worked up over something said that was never intended to offend, or when people challenge your personal experiences (and I'm not referring to anyone or any recent events, I'm only speaking in a general context). Debating & expressing opinions are one thing, but trying to invalidate someone or silence them is abysmal (again, speaking only in a general context!).

I know you can't please all of the people all of the time, though.

I always look forward to your posts, Lorraine!!! There are several folks here who have so much to share, so much wisdom & guidance from which to benefit. I count you in that grouping.

Tulip & The Three Amigos
Born at 35w5d on December 31, 2002 - Happy New Year's Eve!!!
Aimee, Let's bump heads!
Edward, Rollin' Rollin' Rollin', Got to keep on rollin'!
Hope, Bouncy! Bouncy! Bouncy! WHEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!

YES! You *can* breastfeed triplets!!!
http://www.tripletconnection.org/dcforum/forum1/14349.html

Tulip & The Three Amigos
GBG born at 35w5d on December 31, 2002 - Happy New Year's Eve!!!

YES! You *can* breastfeed triplets!!!

I am a Velveteen Rabbit, and the birth, love, kisses & magic that are my children has made me Real.