I am a stay at home mom with a son who is 2 years and nine months. I had my triplets 2/8. They were 29 1/2 weeks old. They will be in the hospital until April. My husband and I are in disagreement over the need for care when they come home. I haven't even mentioned the time I go to the hospital to visit the babies currently which I feel is affecting my son. What kind of help are you getting, receiving, or doing to cope with your situation? My husband feels I should be able to do it on my own.