I feel the same way. Only, my tubes are tied. Eric talked about getting "clipped" but I told him that if I were to end up pregnant I would consider it a wonderful thing. I have four living children, and should be totally happy, but I would welcome another. He's not so keen on the procedure anyway, so we are letting things be. Chances are slim, but there, and we are OK with that.

Talk with your husband honestly. be sure he knows how you feel. You know, part of Eric's reason for not wanting more is how scared he is that the same thing will happen again. that we will have a preemie, or lose another child. We couldn't handle that. We don't really know what delays Levi and Vivian will have yet, there's too much unanswered. Too many worries. That may be kind of what your husband is thinking about.

It's a very hard decision to make. But be sure you both agree on it.

((hugs))
Erika

Mom to:
Matt (1991) Megan (1994) and ^Eric Jr^ Levi and Vivian (2003) at 26 weeks