Marie, I did tell Jason that I would go on the pill. I am more than willing to do that. I know one reason he wants to have the surgery this year is because we've met all our deductibles with having the babies, so it won't cost us any money. However, it is still February, he has the rest of the year to do this. I am really surprised that he wants to do it so quickly!

I have thought about letting him read this and get the input of others who've lost a child. I don't know if he would or would not read this. As far as him getting "mad" at me, I don't think that he would, and if he did, OH WELL! This does involve me too.

I don't know if this is in other states, but here, in Louisiana, the wife has to sign consent for the husband to have this done. I don't want to defy him at all, but just as I would have to be certain about having an TL, I feel I need to be certain for his VS.

I know it will be nearly impossible to "change his mind" on this:'(

Kelly

DS~7years
triplets~2years
January 25, 2005 at 33.4 weeks
DS,DD, and ^i^DS