I'm so sorry for the loss of your little boy. I lost my little girl when she was 2-1/2 days old and still in the NICU. My two survivors were still in the NICU at the time so I didn't have 2 at home and one in the hospital. It must have been so hard to have to travel back and forth and not be able to see him every day.

The loss of a child is a terrible thing to go through and no one should have to experience it. You are so right in that most people don't understand. I always hated the comment that 'at least you have the other 2'. It's like you shouldn't feel as bad that you lost one because you have 2 more.

The pain does get better with time. Those of us on this board are proof of that. Its a hard road, but it does get better.

Again, I'm so sorry for your loss.

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^Alexandra^, Brian, Charlie 07/28/2003
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