I am so sorry about your loss. You can never prepare yourself to loose a baby, even if you do expect it. I lost my triplets at 23 weeks from preterm labor. I was so devestated. I feel like we lost our family. It did seem like nobody new what I was going through and thought that I should just bounce right back from it. That is until I came to this site.

I know how you feel about people think you shouldn't grieve because you have two left. When I got pregnant again people actually thought that I was "over" loosing my babies. I had a coworker tell me that "I didn't have to be so sad anymore because I was pregnant" I couldn't believe it but if you have never been there then you don't know. Yes it does help to have something to look forward to but I still have really bad days where I just can't stop crying.

We will never get over loosing our babies it just seems to get easier as the days go by.

Kara
Mom to BBG Triplet Angels
^Alexander Ryan^^Ethan Cole^^Avery Lynn^
8/12/06 - 8/12/06

BG Twins @ 36weeks 4days
Alison 5lbs 14oz
Elijah 5lbs 7oz