Joy

I am so very sorry for what happened to your baby girl. Please know that you are not alone. Something similar happened to me as well. Less than a year before I gave birth to my triplets I was pregnant with a singleton - a perfectly healthy baby I was told. I went into labor 5 days after my due date. I went to the hospital early b/c I hadn't been feeling her move and I was told that she had passed away. Less than 3 months later, I was pregnant with the triplets and delivered them w/out issue - an extremely high risk pregnancy. Doesn't make sense - I've stopped trying to figure it out.

I won't say that it gets easier - your emotions will change with time. Take one day at a time. Just remember her and give your triplets a special hug and kiss.

Sarah

Spontaneous identical triplets born April 2007 at 35 weeks, 6 days:
Baby A - 5 lbs, 3 oz
Baby B - 4 lbs, 13 oz
Baby C - 4 lbs, 13 oz

Sarah's blog: http://thegreatumbrellaheist.blogspot.com/

Rich's blog: http://runningwithtriplets.blogspot.com/