I agree that it is whatever you feel comfortable doing. We did not have a service for James who passed away after 5 days. Just John and I went to the cemetary, said our prayers and kissed the casket before it was lowered. We bought flowers and laid them around his grave.

I did not feel that anyone would understand what we were going through (at the time 4 babies, 1 who passed, the other 3 struggling) I don't know if it was right or wrong but it was right for us at that time.

Please do what you feel comfortable doing, not what someone else thinks.

God bless

Jane
Anna/Emma/John/^James^ (9/24/03-9/29/03) 26 wkers
In memory of my beloved Emma 9/24/03 - 1/19/07
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