Hi Cat,

I so wish we could do surrogacy since my niece is willing to carry our baby. We looked into it and the cost is too much for us. Housing prices have gone so low that the equity we have in our house is not enough to cover the cost for the whole process plus cost for my niece to have the baby cause it wouldn't be covered under our's or her ins. plus in state of Ca. we would have to adopt our own child/ren. And at my age our endo. told us we would have a less then 50% chance. I don't know of any resources to help us with the process but it just doesn't seem to be an option, like we had hoped. Just another blow to the gut! We have one more try and then our ins. cuts us off and we will either have to pay full cost or stop trying. I don't know if fate is telling us enough is enough. I'm very discouraged. Thanks so much for listening.

Raquel
Mom to triplet angels: Sophia, Steven Jr. & Xavier b/d 25w4d (11/26/06, & Sweet baby Joseph (11/14/07-11/14/07)
Eliana Grace-God has answered
Born 4/03/09