Hi Cat,

Yeah, if you find any resources I would love to know about them. I have checked on line about surrogacy and costs are similar plus cost for the surrogate. My Endo. is the head of infertility through Kaiser P. and he is part of the team at Loma Linda (which is a teaching hospital in Loma Linda, CA) for IVF treatment and does surrogacy so, I'm taking his information as truth. I wish we had access to that kind of money. The market for houses in CA has dipped so much we may have about half of the cost but we also have to consider the possibility of it not working with just a 40% chance. I think if our chances were higher we would find a way, ask family etc. I'm just getting to the point where I think I am accepting that we may not have any of our own children. I'm thinking we may just be a childless couple here on earth. I don't even think I have it me to adopt. I'm giving up.

Raquel
Mom to triplet angels: Sophia, Steven Jr. & Xavier b/d 25w4d (11/26/06, & Sweet baby Joseph (11/14/07-11/14/07)
Eliana Grace-God has answered
Born 4/03/09