I posted on the general forum. I am so sorry for your loss, and wish that I could walk with you as you go through the NICU journey.

Please call your triplets triplets if you are most comfortable doing this -- and, then tell everyone that the third one is with grandma and grandpa right now. It is the simplest way of dealing with this issue -- both for you and for strangers.

You will be in my prayers.

Cat w/3 Kittens
Caidan, Carina and Caeleigh
Born at 31 weeks, 1/8/04.
It is better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all. In memory of Carina, who was greatly loved.

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