Quanita,

I also lost one and brought home two and, in my experience, you should do whatever feels right to you. It is your journey and you make the calls. I am sorry for your loss of Owen and I will keep Zander and Ellie in my prayers.

As for belonging here, you most certainly do. I am still here because the people are great, the information is priceless, and it lets my little Brody live on...if only in my signature line.

One day at a time...

Lisa
Mom to

BB 03/05/1997 34 weeks, 2 days
Dean Thomas 4 lbs 14.5 oz
Owen Andrew 4 lbs 8 oz

BG^B^ 09/29/2007 33 weeks, 1 day
Trey Samuel 4 lbs 1 oz
Marley Carol 4 lbs 15 oz
and our stillborn angel, Brody Brendan, 11 ounces