I agree with the others, what you choose to say is a very personal choice. We lost one of our boys when he was 8 months old. As far as we're concerned, we had triplets and Alexander and Ava are still triplets. I can't bear it when people call them twins. They're not!

I find myself telling people that they are 2 of triplets and that we lost their brother James. We have the strength to do that, and believe me some days it does take every ounce of strength to say that.

Good luck with your other two, I hope that they are home with you very soon. It's the hardest thing to endure, life and loss at the same time.

Angel Owen is in my thoughts.

I wish you all the very best from a very cold London.

Kerri xxx