yeah, we do a lot of that here...and the good thing is that is ok. I also wanted to let you know that weekends are kinda dead around here, so be patient. People will come and introduce themselves and "welcome" you here...even though that is such a weird word to desribe it. Anyway, if you are on Facebook, which a lot of us are, you can find me at karen fisher jacobson.

One other thing that I wanted to say but forgot was that it is very important for you to remember that you are a triplet mom, and will always be. All of us pray that you will be an earthly mommy soon, but it brought me great comfort to know that I was still considered to be a triplet mommy.

In response to some of your questions, I can tell you that it isn't standard procedure to have a cerclage put in unless you are showing signs of an incompetent cervix. From what you wrote it sounded as if everything seemed to be going fine, and then...it didn't. There are several ladies here that have gone on to have a preventative cerclage put in when they found themselves expecting again. They will most likely chime in on that. One of my good friends abrupted with her twins and just delivered another son. She was worried about the possibility of abruption a second time and the MFM told her that she wasn't any more likely to have a second one..and she didn't.

I am so so so glad you got to hold your precious angels. It meant the world to me to be able to hold Hunter without all the tubes.

Finally, I was just wondering where you are located? I just heard of a family that lost their babies at the hospital where I delivered. Please Please Please don't hesitate to come here and vent, grieve, rant, rave...I have found that it really helps.

Thinking of you!

Karen
Mom to Patrick, William, and our Angel Hunter
7-14-08

Karen
Mom to Patrick, William, and our Angel Hunter
7-14-08