Nan,
I'm so glad you had the strength to go to a therapist. Sometimes it is a tough step to take. I have been seeing a therapist since about 3 months after our loss and it has helped so much. She has really helped me to reframe some of my thinking and I catch myself replaying her advice over in my head throughout the week... I think that is when I knew that talking to her was really helping. It would be great if they could just give us the solution to getting through this or help take the pain away but unfortunately no one can do that. I have found that really working through my feelings with her has been difficult but helps immensely.
I hope you find the same!

Jessica
Mom to Parker, McKenna, ^Hadley^ born 10/9/07 28w5d
little brother Sawyer
and big sister Ashlyn
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