1. I am sure there is a link somewhere. Here are some common ones though:
DW - Dear Wife
DH - Dear Husband
BTW - By The Way
ROFLMAO - (lots of variatios) Rolling On Floor Laughing My A$$ Off
IMO - In My Opinion
BF - Breast Feed

2. We drive a 4-door car...can't help here. We love it and get by great. Our kids are almost 2 years old.

3. Don't know the answer to this one. Ask the dr.

4. It is great your families are near-by. We did not have hired help. We did all the night stuff together. and wife had volunteers from church/friends to come over during the day to help feed. It was helpful, but DW usually ended up finishing feeding each child b/c no one could quite get them to drink enough.

Tripdaddy
Father of Sam, Rob, & Trey