Welcome to the Father's Forum. First of all congratulations! The world of triplets is amazingly wonderful. That's not to say that it is not a lot of work either. Do you have any other children? If not, spend as much time with your wife as possible. Take crafts, magazines, movies, hobby stuff to her. I lived in the hospital with Susan for the month before the kids were born, which really helped with her sanity (As well as mine). The thought of having three children all at once is a little overwhelming but you will soon get used to it. Knowledge is power. Read up on everything you can get your hands on. Triplet Connection has a good reference package that you can order. Look in to getting AFLAC supplemental insurance. We got $28,000 tax free money from our policy. It's a wise investment. As to how do you afford three kids: you learn to sacrifice and cut corners. Some of these lessons are not learned until later.
Susan and I had come to the point that we wanted children and it did not matter how we got them here (adoption, invitro, etc.). You handle the fear by keeping busy and having faith that God will keep you all safe.

Keep coming back to TC. It is a valuable resource.

Justin
Husband to Susan
Dad to Kimball, Karissa, Kelsey 11/22/00 34wks.

Justin
Husband to Susan
Dad to Kimball, Karissa, Kelsey 11/22/00 34wks
Emily - 11/8/2005