Keifer,

Welcome to the forum and the wonderful and wacky world of HOM parenting. Please fasten your seat belt securely, you are in for the ride of a lifetime.

I got that off my chest. Advise. Communicate with your DW all the time, you two are going to need each other more than ever now. Next, don't feel ashamed for help. Friends, family, church etc. It's six months since the kids are born and we still get on average two dinners cooked for us a week. Either by friends, our people in our church. Third read the TC forum. The main board is informative despite the occasional blow ups. Or ask here.

Looking forward to knowing you better.