>If anyone is looking at their wife who is pregnant with
>triplets and thinking why doesn't she get off the couch and
>do the dishes I think it's safe to say he is feeling some
>resentment or anger.
>
>I'm sure being a father of triplets is hard, but the
>challenges of being a mother of triplets is far more DURING
>THE PREGNANCY because we become 4 people. Anything we do or
>stress we feel can affect the babies we carry. We feel like
>we want to do more, but know we aren't supposed to and if dh
>is giving us pressure or making us feel guilty to do more it
>makes it even worse. Even if dh is huffing and puffing
>while he tidies up the house it makes us feel like we should
>have done it for him.

It's not about one-upmanship. The post wasn't about the challenges of being a mother vs. being a father. You still don't get it.

Justin
Husband to Susan
Dad to Kimball, Karissa, Kelsey 11/22/00 34wks.

Justin
Husband to Susan
Dad to Kimball, Karissa, Kelsey 11/22/00 34wks
Emily - 11/8/2005