thanks for your thoughts and sorry to hear about what you're going through. I think it's hard to make one decision that will affect three. I think reading about your dilemma has really opened my eyes. I feel my girls are ready but maybe my son is not... I did the same thing---3yo preschool and 4yo preschool ---kindergarten would be next. I've been trying to tell myself that they are smart and age doesn't matter.Thank you for your suggestions-I will definately be looking at the school more closely! After convincing myself that they were ready now I'm not so sure. Best of luck with all you have going on. Cara