I felt the same way when we brought ours home. Ours are only 8 months now! But I know exactly how you feel. I felt like I was always doing something wrong because one of them was always unhappy. Ours were in the NICU for 2 weeks and were on a very strict 4 hour schedule. We kept them on that for a long time because we couldn't let them sleep through feedings, the doctor wanted us to wake them up to eat. My husband and I worked in shifts to but he leaves for work at 5 am so he had to get the majority of the sleep. I felt like I was loosing my mind and all the help that was offered throughout my pregnancy never showed up. I was pretty much on my own, with my three year old. Just know it does get better. I think around four or five months mine finally started sleeping until five am, which was heaven. And just this past week they are sleeping till 7! I wish I had the energy to get up first and have some time to myself but who am I kidding I sleep!

The one thing that helped me is I switched them to a feeding every three hour schedule and I keep a very strict schedule. Without my schedule and my triplet mom friends on face book I don't know what I would do. It does get better. Mine are just now starting to become mobile and I am scared out of my wits about what do!

Lindsay