Mine are a year old now and rest assured, things get a little better every day.

Cribs are too big for tiny infants, swaddling and sleeping in boppies helps that. Mine slept like that until 6 months, swaddled until nine months! by then I was using a torn up king sized flannel sheet as a swaddling blanket.

Most importantly though, get help. if you can't afford a nanny, get an au pair. If you don't have room for one, work shifts with your hubby, using podees so that you can do a feed by yourself. you need at least one REM cycle of sleep in order to function and keep depression at bay.

Good luck!

Eliza