I think most of us go thru this. I was such a controling B when my 3 first came home from the hospital. Everything my mom and grandma tried to do for me or the babies was not right. I didn't want anyone the take care of them but me and I wanted to do EVERYTHING for them so that I knew it was done right. Once they were gone (about 7 wks) it was such a relief to me and we have been doing by ourselves ever since. That wears off though and now I am not that way at all and have appologized for my behavior and chalked it up to hormones. Actually now it would be a relief to have the help. I do wish I would have spent more "cuddle time" with the babies because at about 5 months they start pushing away from you when you hold them they want to see everything thats going on around them.

Reta

Kipras, Kajus, Rokas born 7/4/ 2008