One of my daughters was crazy during feeding too. She had reflux, was initially put on Zantac which did NOTHING. Then we got the official diagnosis of reflux after a pH probe, and she was put on Prevacid. That helped tons, but she would still go crazy at times when feeding - like you, I was the only one who could get food down her. She was on a gentle based formula, which I don't think helped. She was also a horrible sleeper - she'd fall asleep with no problems, but would wake up after 30 minutes of naps, and at random intervals during the night screaming in pain.

We finally got a referral to an allergist, and it turns out she is allergic to milk protein. We switched her to soy immediately, and within two weeks she was taking longer naps and started sleeping through the night. Maybe you could try switching her to a completely milk-free formula? My husband had wanted to do that months before the allergist appointment, but we'd switched her 3 times already and I didn't want to cause her any more discomfort - irony!

Amy

Julia, ^Caitlin^ (stillborn due to encephalocele complications) & Gabrielle
30.2 weeks