We've done it all. My boys were together for preschool and kindergarten. We separated them into individual classes for 1st, 2nd, and 3rd grade. We did a 2/1 split for 4/5 grade. They were back together for 6th grade. Now, they are in junior high and don't have a single class together.

Our elementary school was wonderful. The principal gave us the choice. She said they let twin parents decide so that triplets shouldn't be any different.

This situation worked out great for my boys. They loved having their own teacher. They are individuals who happen to share a birthday. My boys are very different individuals with strengths and weaknesses. They have never had any issues being together or separate.

I have told all 4 of my boys that they will have teachers they like and dislike along the way. Luckily, elementary school was amazing. Junior high is only been an option for a few weeks but things are chugging along. No big problems. Some teachers they like more than others. That's life.

You may want to see if matching your child's personality to the teacher is an option. Or do a 2/1 split and alternate who gets their own classroom each year.

Best wishes on your decision.

Sharon
12 year old b/b/b + 16 year old son