Well the VP interviewed my son and he told her what had happened.
We will probably choose an internal meeting, it is not such outrageous abuse, just inappropriate behavior.

(( I had spoken to the teacher before x3 but she is not receptive on similar isssues and her view is it is the child's fault (WEIRD HUH?).For me: Three strikes youre out)) That is why the VP route.

WHAT I WANT is an apology to my son (DS said "SHE won't apologize B/C she is an adult" )and a better way for her to address my son's homework. ;ie instead of embarasssing him and crumpling the paper, if not satisfied. Give me a new copy we will redo and compare, so he can see the difference.

I am not here to destroy her career, she might of had a bad day. But from my experience with her, I want to have her behavior documented, in case it is NOT an ISOLATED INCIDENT.People can act the way they want but there are consequences.

My hope is that this teacher does not repeat this kind of inappropriate behavior with other children. (I had the luck of all three of my children being together so it is not just a he said/she said, plus my other DS told me, otherwise I would not have known it happened. They are in a CTT class not a general ed class,plus he has OT issues so I feel they should expect messiness.)

NO one is perfect and we are all human beings but a child is an innocent and the burden of responsibilities relies on the adults.

I get really EMOTIONAL when stressful things happen, so it is hard for me to think straight. I REALLY APPRECIATE ALL the POSTS b/c it helps me balance out my thoughts with people who know how life is with trips. THANK YOU ALL. It is difficult to explain in detail the situations, so some misinterpretations happen but it is OK with me.

SO THANK YOU!!! with gratitude, EmmyG