Some of you might remember me posting about splitting my trio 2/1 next school year. It seemed like they were all OK with the idea. Well, at lunch yesterday it really hit my more outgoing daughter pretty hard. So hard, she stayed in her room for 45 minutes rather than having her cookie dessert. I hadn't worried too much about talking to her about it since she seems so sure of herself.

They had already been separated for swim lessons. When I pointed that out, she told me she had cried lots at those because she missed her sister. (who was only a class away in the same pool) She says they are sisters and should not be separated and is worried about being able to play without her. Something about having a sister club. Said having her brother with her just wasn't the same.

It seems that they have played separately a lot of the time but I suppose they do get some comfort in knowing the others are nearby. Maybe the sister that she is overshadowing is the one giving her the confidence to be such a force. I know that her sister really wants to have a chance to be on her own. I just hope it doesn't cause any of them problems at school to be in 2 different classes.
Do you guys think I should let the school know about my seemingly more outgoing daughter's feelings about this so we can figure out a way to make the trasition easier?????

Andi
g/b/g
almost 7 yr old triplets
start 1st grade in less than a month!