Hi I have been divorced since my children were 3 1/2. They are now 10 and will be 11 in September. It can be very hard being mom, dad, housekeeper, lawn care, school work, everything! Plus working a full time job. My ex rarely sees the kids and never helps out. He might see one of them once a month for a very short overnight visit. He just recently let all 3 spend the night with him on Fathers Day weekend. This was the first time he had all 3 alone for any length of time and they are 10! It is very stressful and at times I think I just can't do all this anymore, but you keep on trucking and try to do the best you can to raise happy, healthy, loving children. It is nice to be able to talk to someone who actually knows what it is like to be a single parent of 3. I hear from singleton moms all the time about how hard it is. LOL!