that you need marriage counseling???? or some kind of help???

My DH and I have been married about 7 years now. Our anniversary is coming up on the 24th of Jan. I never really wanted children until we were married almost 5 years when the baby craze hit me. LOL! I knew going into the process of conceiving with infertility issues that my DH could be a difficult person. (I told myself if I couldn't raise my kids with him I would raise them without him). Our communication has never been the best and seems a lot less effective since we have had kids.......trips at that! I afraid that we are spiraling down the same road that some many couples go these days..... the big D.

I don't like fighting in front of the babies. I want my kids to be brought up in an atmosphere of LOVE! How do I get DH to see that this relationship could be so much better? He might even get some once in awhile if he would talk to me nicer. LOL! Any advice would be much appreciated.
PS I am in counseling but I don't think my DH sees the need.

Deb
33wks GBG
1/25/08