For those of you who had long NICU stays how did you handle visitors?

During the week I'm going up by myself trying to kangaroo and pump. My husband drops by after work but can't stay long and weekends are when he gets to kangaroo.

I know the family is just trying to show support, but it's getting so hard to schedule visitors around every thing else. I had explained this to people and asked for them to be patient giving us a few days notice. However, today while kangarooing, my stepmom text messaged and my aunt hoping to come see them pretty much immediately.

Just wondering how to handle it without upsetting people.

Christina

Daughter born 1/4/09
BBB born 9/9/10 @ 27w 5d
Daughter born 8/14/12
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