My only problem was with MIL. She is not at all self-reliant and wanted to come with me. she's not very maternal so she literally thought I would spend 15 minutes at the most. I told the nurses about her and they totally had my back. I made dh bring her because I couldn't have her with me. The nurse told her to stop talking when the babies were feeding because it was taking too much energy for them to listen to her. So that pretty much put an end to her visits. The nurses are truly your friend!!! People just don't understand preemies especially if they have never experienced it before.