I allowed only my close family and friends to see the babies like within the first two days after they were born. After that I said no visitors. My mom, dad, MIL, FIL could go on their own to see the babies but could not bring anyone with them. It is NICU policy to allow up to 4 visitors to go see the babies without the parents. This helped me because sometimes they would just drop milk for me. The nurses would not allow anyone to hold any of the babies without the parents present and with permission. So I didnt have to worry about that. You will just have to be tough and if they dont understand then oh well. It really isnt a time for just anyone to pop in for a visit. Some people just dont understand that. I didnt have much issues with it. After I was discharged pretty much I just told everyone no.

Kelly
GGB born 30 weeks

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