Because of comments like this....

"And I so wish I could be as perfect as you."
"What drugs are you taking?"
"I'm offended by this statement."
"I'm so glad that you are one of those perfect people."


I wrote a post about the blessing of triplets and enjoying your triplets. I feel sad that many moms are talking about how jealous they are of singleton moms.

Then I become the bad guy for saying such a thing. And I'm "perfect" b/c I'm trying to see everything about my triplets as positive. Thats just crazy. Of course I had it hard, I don't have a nanny, my dh doesn't help out much, so it's mostly me.

All I'm trying to say is, you need to try to be positive. Negative feeds off of negative. What helped me the most when the kids were little, were the positive post. Reading about the moms who were happy, the ones who had a good outlook, the positive ones.

Maybe more people would post if people here were more kind.

Cheryl
Mommy to 5
Kyle (16)
Casey (13)
Tripz (BBG Jan 2006)


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Okay, didn't we do this yesterday. And where do you find that popcorn guy at, I like him.
Anyways, I thought that was the whole reason of TC, the freedom to express your emotions and concerns to other multiple moms. Have the choice to respond to a thread if so wanted to. If a thread is negative than why respond to it. If you are a positive person than stay away from the negativity of others. I like to think that I am and can be positive with the way my life as turned out. But there were bad days when my girls were small and I am sure that there will be plenty more. I hope that I can count on some of you to understand when I do have those bad days. I am sorry that this has turned ugly for you. But like the pps stated, timing is everything.



Nicole,
My little lady's
Brynn, Taylor, Shelby,
36w, March 22, 04
Formerly known as niknakx3