Because of comments like this....

"And I so wish I could be as perfect as you."
"What drugs are you taking?"
"I'm offended by this statement."
"I'm so glad that you are one of those perfect people."


I wrote a post about the blessing of triplets and enjoying your triplets. I feel sad that many moms are talking about how jealous they are of singleton moms.

Then I become the bad guy for saying such a thing. And I'm "perfect" b/c I'm trying to see everything about my triplets as positive. Thats just crazy. Of course I had it hard, I don't have a nanny, my dh doesn't help out much, so it's mostly me.

All I'm trying to say is, you need to try to be positive. Negative feeds off of negative. What helped me the most when the kids were little, were the positive post. Reading about the moms who were happy, the ones who had a good outlook, the positive ones.

Maybe more people would post if people here were more kind.

Cheryl
Mommy to 5
Kyle (16)
Casey (13)
Tripz (BBG Jan 2006)


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Ahh.. get over it. Go back, read your replies there are just as many posts agreeing with you as there are ones who are offended.

It's your right to have your own post about loving the experience etc, it's other's right to vent and rightfully so raising triplets is a roller coaster.

I personally would like to rent my nearly 3 yr olds out for a year, simply because they are making me bonkers right now and LOVED LOVED to read the vents because I felt human, normal and I was relived to know that all the negative thoughts swirling in my head weren't only because I was a mean Mommy.

Of course I love my kids, they are my greatest wish come true but it doesn't mean I can't be tired or frustrated.

Keep lurking or posting, but as someone who tries to see things "half full" you sure are dwelling on the negative.

Misty
Mom to Emma,Isabella and Sophia
05/06/05 33 weeks