Because of comments like this....

"And I so wish I could be as perfect as you."
"What drugs are you taking?"
"I'm offended by this statement."
"I'm so glad that you are one of those perfect people."


I wrote a post about the blessing of triplets and enjoying your triplets. I feel sad that many moms are talking about how jealous they are of singleton moms.

Then I become the bad guy for saying such a thing. And I'm "perfect" b/c I'm trying to see everything about my triplets as positive. Thats just crazy. Of course I had it hard, I don't have a nanny, my dh doesn't help out much, so it's mostly me.

All I'm trying to say is, you need to try to be positive. Negative feeds off of negative. What helped me the most when the kids were little, were the positive post. Reading about the moms who were happy, the ones who had a good outlook, the positive ones.

Maybe more people would post if people here were more kind.

Cheryl
Mommy to 5
Kyle (16)
Casey (13)
Tripz (BBG Jan 2006)


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I really think that you should choose your words a bit more carefully next time. I can understand wanting other to see the positive HOWEVER.... we do need to vent.. When I resonded to the other post it was the FIRST time I had ever let it out what has been bothering me because I just let it bottle up and I don't allow myself to ever complain or vent because I am always telling myself how lucky I am and the one time I decide to let it out, I read a post like yours. I don't even know you and I shouldn't even let your words and thought make me feel guilty but because of the person I am I did let it bother me ... so please don't make us feel bad because we are only human and need to vent. For some of us this is all we have.