Okay, here's the situation. The kids always want to play outside but as soon as we do the fighting starts. Over toys, who gets to swing with whom, etc they are 6 years old and still can't seem to get along. They have toys galore outside. Bikes, scooters, cars, dump trucks, a huge play structure so it is not lack of stuff. Also, my son constantly whines to play with him. I don't mind as long as it is kicking a hall around or do something like that but I don't want to crawl around on the ground with cars.

I guess I just need some suggestions. I want them to use their imaginations and play together. I give them ideas like to use their fort as a castle Pretend they are Rick climbing.

Suzan

g/g/b August 21, 2005
my miracle 24 weekers!!!!

Because of everyones suggestions, it has gotten better. I do try not to interfere and stay on the porch with my iphone. It is out of the way but still with in ear and eye. 90% of the time they are getting along now. If they come to me with a silly argument or tattle I let them know that outside time is over and they can take a nap instead. That WORKS!!!! I only get involved if someone is hurt.

Thanks everyone. I am not a facebooker so I still come here for advice.

Suzan

g/g/b August 21, 2005
my miracle 24 weekers!!!!

Glad to hear it! You should make up a fake last name and join FB anyway. I'll add ya!