Darn it. I didn't have time to copy and paste the post that got pulled today on the main board, so I could blog about it.

Did anyone save it? It would have been such a good blog topic and I would have loved to see how it would be received in a larger, more diverse audience. Loren? I'm counting on you to have saved that post, little missy!!!!!

Michele
Sarah, Gregory, Amanda
born 1/22/04 at 35w1d

Our surprise baby Austin born 06/15/2005

www.fourtimesthefun.blogspot.com

Oh, I may have lied! LOL! I just read Kristi's blog and it appears she wrote a thread that was pulled? Is that the one you were looking for? I sent you the original one, without checking to see if it was even still on here. I missed any drama that ensued afterwards. Catch me up! What did I miss? Kristi's pissed! I know Amy is too. But I thought it was all over the original post. Am I in the dark? Could you flip the light on for me?

Kristi had posted a long comment on the original post about having preemie babies and keeping them a live. It was a very touching post. Then the person commented back about babies being born earlier that 29 weeks shouldn't be saved and they should let die. So Kristi started a new post that you can read on her blog.

Tanna

06/22/07 29 weeks 4 days
Lincoln 2 lbs 13 oz
Colton 2 lbs 14.4 oz
Dakota 2 lbs 11oz
http://tannastriplets.blogspot.com/

So after this new gal offered all those apologies, she then replied back to Kristi with "babies being born earlier that 29 weeks shouldn't be saved and they should let die"? Holy crackers! Poor Kristi! Is that in the post I sent you, Michele??? Surely Janet did not defend that comment. There has to be more to the story. Wow! I am off to go research.

No, damn it. The thread you sent didn't have all the posts open. If it had been a "view all" thread I would have been able to see it. She's a disgusting vile human being who shouldn't be having ANY children.

Michele
Sarah, Gregory, Amanda
born 1/22/04 at 35w1d

Our surprise baby Austin born 06/15/2005

www.fourtimesthefun.blogspot.com

Grrrrrr, maybe someone out there saved it!!

Tanna

06/22/07 29 weeks 4 days
Lincoln 2 lbs 13 oz
Colton 2 lbs 14.4 oz
Dakota 2 lbs 11oz
http://tannastriplets.blogspot.com/

The only quote I can find is:

"I currently have a meeting with my perinatologist to speak about the subject of letting them go if born before 29 weeks with major complications. NOW I'm sure that post is really going to PISS people off, but that is honestly how I feel, and as you all well know I'm not going to lie."

I am really surprised that Janet is taking the stance that she is. The whole maui mom thing was a head scratcher too. I will never understand why the powers that be on this board give so little weight to concerns of the masses, yet seem to protect those who need it the least.

In my own blog hopping this evening, I am amazed at how many level headed TCer's are feeling a personal slam by the management here. There are several of us who hop into all the drama so you can expect us to get whipped up, but when our long term TC members who are known for steering clear of the flame wars are expressing an interest in leaving, someone should take notice.

i didn't find the new gal's apologies to be apologetic. i found them condescending and inflammatory. to a few people who didn't challenge her set points, she thanked them, to most, she just continued stating her opinions.

tess
mummy to 6yr old ds & the triumverate born 2004

"the days are slow but the years fly by quickly"