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angrae77Tue Sep-23-08 09:48 PM
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#1560, "Who hates the 3's?"


          

What the heck(my kids new inappropriate saying)? It has not been a week yet since my boys turned 3 and I am already checking priceline for a one way ticket to Mexico. They were angels(by comparison) during the 2's, but a few months before 3 aliens kidnapped by boys and replaced them w/monsters(although they are very cute monsters). I am not sure I am going to make it through this year. Please tell me it will get better. Seems as if everything is a battle and they listen to nothing I say. So therefore I am always having to say it a little louder. I feel like I am a mean mommy who is yelling and putting kids in time out. I was actually glad to go to work today.

Well, on the flip side they say and do the funniest things lately.

Just needed to vent.


Angela
Mother to Jaxon, Jagger, and Jordan 9/18/08

  

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RE: Who hates the 3's?, foreveramom, Sep 23rd 2008, #1
RE: Who hates the 3's?, MSTAR, Sep 23rd 2008, #2
RE: Who hates the 3's?, LolasLadies, Sep 23rd 2008, #4
      RE: Who hates the 3's?, NC_tripmom, Sep 23rd 2008, #5
RE: Who hates the 3's?, NC_tripmom, Sep 23rd 2008, #3
RE: Who hates the 3's?, catybarra, Sep 24th 2008, #6
RE: Who hates the 3's?, Prairie3, Sep 24th 2008, #7
RE: Who hates the 3's?, jandmwhitchurch, Sep 24th 2008, #8
RE: Who hates the 3's?, franjipani, Sep 24th 2008, #9
RE: Who hates the 3's?, joytimesthree, Sep 24th 2008, #10
RE: Who hates the 3's?, Sheller223, Sep 24th 2008, #11
RE: Who hates the 3's?, alimae, Sep 24th 2008, #12
RE: Who hates the 3's?, mamalove, Sep 24th 2008, #13
RE: Who hates the 3's?, LolasLadies, Sep 24th 2008, #14
      RE: Who hates the 3's?, mamalove, Sep 24th 2008, #15
RE: Who hates the 3's?, Triplethefun04, Sep 25th 2008, #16
RE: Who hates the 3's?, Megan Welfare, Sep 25th 2008, #17
      RE: Who hates the 3's?, Missys3, Sep 25th 2008, #18

foreveramomTue Sep-23-08 10:07 PM
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#1564, "RE: Who hates the 3's?"
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Mine have gotten so much better right after they hit 3 1/2. They're world is expanding and they have better reasoning ability. For the first time in their lives, I feel like I spend more time enjoying them than correcting them and putting out fires all day. It's nice. Hang in there. For me, 4 has always been the magic age. Seems like it will hold true for my trio. They are neat little people lately.

Mom of: Kristi(25), Kevin(22), Kelli(20), Angus(8) and GGB - Ruca, Nadia and Max (6) Born 10-14-04 at 34 weeks.

  

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MSTARTue Sep-23-08 10:16 PM
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#1566, "RE: Who hates the 3's?"
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There is an actual book out there titled, Three Year Old: Enemy Or Friend?

The threes are SOOOOO HARD. Truly. It really does get better in the fours.

Michele
Sarah, Gregory, Amanda
born 1/22/04 at 35w1d

Our surprise baby Austin born 06/15/2005

www.fourtimesthefun.blogspot.com

  

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LolasLadiesTue Sep-23-08 11:27 PM
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#1579, "RE: Who hates the 3's?"
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You keep saying it, but I'm not seeing it!

We have... 3-1/2 months until the golden FOURs. When, almighty Loren from the future, does this transformation take place? I want dates, places and times.

Lately, the girls have been such little punks (putting it nicely) that it has made me rethink this whole allowing-Mike-to-have-more-kids scheme he had going. Even if it IS just one kid.

These kids are driving me over a cliff. I gotta have more preschool.

Loren
GGG Jan.2005 @ 28wks

Sweetened Taters - http://sweetenedtaters.blogspot.com

  

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NC_tripmomTue Sep-23-08 11:35 PM
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#1581, "RE: Who hates the 3's?"
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Tue Sep-23-08 11:36 PM by NC_tripmom

          

For us it was a cpl wks after their 4th bday.

Jes
B(GG) 8/04 34 wks
G 7/00

  

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NC_tripmomTue Sep-23-08 11:21 PM
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#1576, "RE: Who hates the 3's?"
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Oh man, 3 sucked big time at our house. I must say 4 is really getting to be better. I can reason w/ them more, they are more willing to help do things.

For what its worth, my kids call me mean too, but it is usually right after I've told them "no".

Hang in there!

Jes
B(GG) 8/04 34 wks
G 7/00

  

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catybarraWed Sep-24-08 07:02 AM
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#1585, "RE: Who hates the 3's?"
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My husband had the right idea--he took off for Japan 2 months before they turned three and he will return right around their 4th birthday hopefully. I hold some resentment for his timing, LOL.

Cathy


Come visit us at http://www.leighaandthetriplets.blogspot.com/

  

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Prairie3Wed Sep-24-08 08:13 AM
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#1593, "RE: Who hates the 3's?"
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Oh yeah...it COMPLETELY sucks. I was just blogging about how horrible they were yesterday...and it's pretty much like this on a consistant basis!!!! AUGH!!!!

http://prairie3.blogspot.com/

Julie
BGB ~ June 16, 2005 @ 31wks 3 days
Samuel Jonas (3lbs 11oz)
Leona Ruth (3lbs 5oz)
Gabriel Douglas (2lbs 11oz)

  

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jandmwhitchurchWed Sep-24-08 08:17 AM
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#1597, "RE: Who hates the 3's?"
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I think my kids misunderstood the prematurity thing, they are supposed to be delayed 2 months not 2 months ahead! Every day we get closer to 3 the worse the act.

Maybe we can get a group rate on that trip to Mexico?

Misty
Abigail 2 lbs 14 oz
Katie 3 lbs 1 oz
James 3 lbs 6 oz
born 11/10/05
30w 5d

My attempt at a blog http://tripletblessed.blogspot.com/

  

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franjipaniWed Sep-24-08 09:14 AM
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#1604, "RE: Who hates the 3's?"
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Wed Sep-24-08 09:15 AM by franjipani

          

we found three wayyyyy worse than two.

to be fair, four is no walk in the park, but you leave a lot of the really annoying things about three on the wayside.

mexico...east or west coast.... i have only been to mexico once and that was so many years ago....oh that would be nice.


tess
mummy to 6yr old ds & the triumverate born 2004

"the days are slow but the years fly by quickly"

  

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joytimesthreeWed Sep-24-08 09:38 AM
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#1606, "RE: Who hates the 3's?"
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Ummm, yeah. They're adorable little rascals one minute and unbearable beasts the next. And the whining. O.M.G. The whining. Please...I cannot take it anymore.

I didn't want to be one of those mommies who yells all day every day. But guess what? I'm sooooo there.

BBG (1/21/05) at 36 weeks

  

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Sheller223Wed Sep-24-08 09:48 AM
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#1607, "RE: Who hates the 3's?"
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Oh, the 3's are kicking my butt all over the place. I feel like I'm turning into the parent that I never wanted to be.

And, yes, the whining. I'm seriously thinking about making a room in the house for the 'whining room.' It will be wherever I'm NOT. We're now on the downhill side of 3, and I get glimpses of improvements, light at the end of the tunnel, but at the moment they're pretty few and far between.

It's a good thing they're so cute because they would have surely been sold to gypsies by now. J/K of course .



Michelle
ggg born March 15, 2005
35.2 wks

  

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alimaeWed Sep-24-08 10:30 AM
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#1612, "RE: Who hates the 3's?"
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Oh gosh. I really hate hearing things like this. My kids are already kicking my butt and they aren't ever two yet. You mean it gets worse after the terrible two's?

Alice





  

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mamaloveWed Sep-24-08 10:49 AM
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#1614, "RE: Who hates the 3's?"
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Shut up, shut up, shut up...all of you! I cannot hear this right now. Two's are completely insane for me. Please don't tell me that 3's are harder. This to shall pass, this to shall pass.....

I need to go get me a Miller Lite (or 6) & enjoy nap time!

FYI: I was teasing about shut up. Peace & love!

Check us out at:
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Isabel, Jasper & Jonah were born on July 1, 2006

And my twin angels in heaven ~
Olivia Layne - 2/13/05
Elijah Cain - 2/13/05

  

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LolasLadiesWed Sep-24-08 10:56 AM
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#1615, "RE: Who hates the 3's?"
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Shannon - you are hilarious!

I'm looking deep into my crystal ball. Your kids will be amazingly well-behaved throughout their threes.

Now SHUTUP and drink your beer!

Loren
GGG Jan.2005 @ 28wks

Sweetened Taters - http://sweetenedtaters.blogspot.com

  

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mamaloveWed Sep-24-08 11:03 AM
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#1618, "RE: Who hates the 3's?"
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Laurene, my love...YOU are hilarious! I think we may be related.

I'm glad the crystal ball says the toxic twins & Jonah will be well-behaved. I must go consult my tarot cards to make sure though.

Check us out at:
http://thewrighttrips.blogspot.com/

Isabel, Jasper & Jonah were born on July 1, 2006

And my twin angels in heaven ~
Olivia Layne - 2/13/05
Elijah Cain - 2/13/05

  

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Triplethefun04Thu Sep-25-08 11:32 AM
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#1693, "RE: Who hates the 3's?"
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4 is fabulous! Every month we get closer to 4 is better and better!

I can't describe 3, like what exactly makes it so hard, but the combination of everything drives you to drink.

It will get better, I promise!


Michelle

Tyler 17 1/2 years!!
Steph 15 1/2 years!!
Ayden, Ryley & Dylan 3 1/2 years!!
http://triplethefunplus2.blogspot.com/

  

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Megan WelfareThu Sep-25-08 12:58 PM
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#1702, "RE: Who hates the 3's?"
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Thu Sep-25-08 12:59 PM by Megan Welfare

          

I HATED twos. HATED HATED HATED. I am hating it again with Elise. In fact, I am hating it more because I feel like I just got done with dealing with this with the triplets and now I'm right back into it.

I'll take 3s ANY DAY over 2s.

With 3s, the whining is worse, the "I can't" business, etc., but at least they can understand you and can express themselves a little more. There is nothing more frustrating (to Mommy or a 2 year old) then having them repeat themselves 18 times and you still can't understand what it is they want no matter how hard you try.

2s also have SO much less self-control. I see the triplets beginning to get into trouble and changing their minds now. Elise still barrels right on into the thick of it with no thought whatsoever for the consequence.

And 2s WANT to do everything for themselves, but aren't necessarily able to. Which is frustrating for everybody.

3s are hard, but 2s were a lot harder around here!

DH often offers me a choice when we split up (like when one is going grocery shopping) of whether I want to take Elise or the triplets. I take the triplets every time! Elise is killing me!!!!

BGG born 4/25/05 at 31w1d




New baby girl born 9/19/06

  

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Missys3Thu Sep-25-08 01:09 PM
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#1703, "RE: Who hates the 3's?"
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I so hope this is true here. If 3's are much worse the 2's I am not sure I can handle it! I will be hunting a job just to pay for daycare so I can stay sane. The only problem with this is I think I may have waited to long already!
Melissa

Melissa
mom to Abbie, Andy & Levi
November 11, 2005
34 weeks 5 days

http://benefieldtriplets.blogspot.com/

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