Dear, Sweet Bereaved Parents,

This is Janet Bleyl, Founder and President of the Triplet Connection. I just received a note from Stephanie White, prompting me to want to send an occasional invitation to you.

Stephanie has asked to be included in our support listing for people who lose one, more, or all of their precious multiple-birth children. She remembered this list being helful when she lost her triplets at 19 weeks, and she was able to make a very special connection with another mother by having the list.

We do try to send everyone who loses one or more of their multiple-birth babies/children a listing of others who have asked to be of support to others following their loss. It contains names, contact information, and brief information regarding their loss -- when, names of infants/children, brief circumstances.

No one understands like someone who has been there. No one can offer the kind of support and understanding that only you can.

If you would like to be added to our support list, please just let me know. If you should just need a support list yourself but do not wish to be included, let me know.

May God bless each one of you with peace and comfort now and always.

With love -

Janet L. Bleyl
Founder and President
The Triplet Connection
janet@tripletconnection.org
435-851-1105

Hi Janet,

I would like to receive a support list and be added to the list too. My email is shelly_halford@yahoo.com.

I lost my BGG triplets July 20th at 21 weeks 4 days due to me developing severe pre-eclampsia. I'm having a really hard time dealing with it and would love to connect with other moms that have been through a similar experience.

Thank you,

Shelly Baker

Hello,

I am new to the list but have been finding it a great comfort. I have spent a lot of time reading through the posts. I am currently 20 weeks 3 days along with triplets. However, we were told last Tuesday that our little girl is not growing enough to keep up with her brothers. At this point they said that she will not make it. We are in such shock because last months ultrasound went so well and we thought that premature labour was our biggest worry. Our little girl has not gained an ounce since the last ultrasound and although she is still alive; the doctor told us she will not survive the next month. Its hard to know how to comfort her at this moment.

I would like to be added to the support list as we are grieving so much and are so worried about the 2 boys. Its hard to find a path to deal with this.

Thank you,
Selena

I just notice this was an old post when I was going to reply. How did things turn out for you and your trio? Please let me know my situation a similar and I need success stories. I am 26 wks. My id twins they have no fluid, have a abnormal placenta, are three weeks behind and one has a two vessel cord. Before we knew they were indentical I was told every visit that one may not make it it. At first it did not sink in until they told me at 21 wks that I should reduce the twins because their outcome was bleak, we refused and as of our last visit they were still growing. There is a possibility that they still may not make it or may pass a birth because the doctor said they have no fluid to help their lungs develop. Their brother is fine and growing normal.