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danammSat Apr-18-09 05:49 PM
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Today is the anniversary of Benjamin's death. We were going to go to the graveyard but my surviving two are not feeling well. I am actually doing ok. I think sometimes it's harder on his birthday because he should be there blowing out his candles. We are going to burn the candle from his memorial service after we put the kids to bed. Thanks for listening.

Dana

Jacob, Olivia, Benjamin
30 weeks 1 day

  

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RE: anniversary, abaros07, Apr 18th 2009, #1
RE: anniversary, mndanm, Apr 18th 2009, #2
RE: anniversary, danamm, Apr 19th 2009, #3
RE: anniversary, soccermom, Apr 19th 2009, #4
RE: anniversary, danamm, Apr 21st 2009, #7
RE: anniversary, jw27, Apr 20th 2009, #5
RE: anniversary, danamm, Apr 21st 2009, #8
RE: anniversary, mythreeangels, Apr 20th 2009, #6
RE: anniversary, danamm, Apr 21st 2009, #9

abaros07Sat Apr-18-09 05:55 PM
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#4332, "RE: anniversary"
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I had the same thing happen - the birthday was harder than the anniversary of Alex's death. I'm sure it was still a hard day for you though and I'm sorry for that. Right there with you...

Allison

Mom to:
Madeline 09/2001
Jack, Evan & ^Alex^ 03/02/2008 @ 26 weeks

  

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mndanmSat Apr-18-09 07:50 PM
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Im sorry for today, I also think that the days leading to their angel anniversary is actual harder than the day itself.

Monique
Mom to 26.5wk triplets, born 09/14/06
^Nicole^
^Daniel^
Nathalie

  

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danammSun Apr-19-09 07:30 AM
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#4340, "RE: anniversary"
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Thanks Allison and Monique, your support means a lot to me.

Dana

Jacob, Olivia, Benjamin
30 weeks 1 day

  

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soccermomSun Apr-19-09 07:45 AM
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#4341, "RE: anniversary"
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I will be thinking of you today! Our 9 mo. death anniversary was yesterday. I keep thinking how we will handle the one year mark. Thank you for letting us know what/how you are doing. I want you to know that all of here are thinking about Benjamin today and wrapping you with love!

Karen
mom to William, Patrick, and our Angel Hunter
7-14-08

  

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danammTue Apr-21-09 04:51 PM
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#4360, "RE: anniversary"
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Thanks Karen. I think the first year is so difficult. It has gotten easier over time but every year I say at this time 4 years ago....I have so appreciated all of the support!

Dana

Jacob, Olivia, Benjamin
30 weeks 1 day

  

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jw27Mon Apr-20-09 07:28 PM
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#4352, "RE: anniversary"
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Thinking of you and little Benjamin today.

Jessica
Mom to Parker, McKenna, ^Hadley^ born 10/9/07 28w5d
little brother Sawyer
and big sister Ashlyn
www.fourplusanangel.com

  

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danammTue Apr-21-09 05:02 PM
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#4361, "RE: anniversary"
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thank you Jessica for your thoughts on this difficult day.

Dana

Jacob, Olivia, Benjamin
30 weeks 1 day

  

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mythreeangelsMon Apr-20-09 08:44 PM
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#4355, "RE: anniversary"
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Hi Dana,
Glad to hear you are coping well and that you are able to do something to remember him. You are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Hugs, Nan

Nan~
In loving memory of my beautiful girls:
^Shelby Lee^, ^Megan Aimee^ and ^Lynne Barbara^,
March 6, 2009, born at 20 weeks, 0 days.
http://rememberingourtripletangels.blogspot.com/
http://forumforgrievingdads.com/

  

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danammTue Apr-21-09 05:04 PM
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#4362, "RE: anniversary"
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Hi Nancy,

Thanks for your thought and prayers. I've been thinking about you.

Dana

Jacob, Olivia, Benjamin
30 weeks 1 day

  

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