This is not the place for me. I have never seen such awful fighting before. What happended to can't say anything nice, than don't say anything at all. I would expect more from men, but you are acting just like all the women.
It is one huge catfight. Gennae and I will find another support club. This is more stressful then her expecting triplets.
Goodbye for now.
-Kiefer

Kiefer,

I am sorry you feel this way. But I don't think that the men have done anything wrong. Myself and a few of the other men are making posts that (in more words or less) say that we should not be making accusations that someone is fake and doesn't deserve to be on this forum. We have been saying that we should give everyone the benefit of the doubt.

Yes there have been a few sarcastic remarks, but that helps break a lot of the tension that we are all experiencing these days.

I made a post supporting Snells post b/c his post is right (IMO). Yes, it created controversy or arguement, but he was only stating that we should not be trying to judge who is fake and who is not fake.

I feel that it is important that we defend the people that are being attacked when the attacking is based on someones opinion of if they are fake or not.

This forum is usually not like this. This same issue comes up about once every 3 months or so and dies down for long periods of time.

I encourage you to look past this arguement to see the forum for what it is and what many of us are trying to keep it as.....a SUPPORT forum for those who have triplets, are expecting triplets.....and not to be the judge of who those people are.

Tripdaddy
Father of Sam, Rob, & Trey

Ditto what Tripdaddy said. Do what's right for you and your familly, just know that you are always welcome here.

Jonathan
Dad to Al 18), Dan(16)
and Aidan, Zachary, and Jillian (9-01)

Jonathan
Dad to Ally(25), Dan(23),
and Aidan, Zachary, and Jillian (8)

Kiefer,
Sorry to hear that you're leaving. The benefits far outweigh the bickering. This is the first of it I have had to go through. I just completely ignore it. I choose not to respond and hope it goes away. It is annoying trying to fish through all those posts to find quality material. I have resorted to trying to bump the quality posts over those by updating, but it seems useless. As far as the fathers forum, it's not quite like that. We've had a discussion or two regarding whether the dw's should be posting in the FF, but the personal attacks and accusations are few and far between.

I totally know how stressful the pregnancy can be and I will be learning about parenting triplets shortly. (crash course). I understand if you choose not to visit TC anymore, but if you need to vent or ask a question feel free to email me at phil-c@kc.rr.com.

Good Luck.

Phil
Proud papa to:
Brennan (20 mo.)
Jackson, Landon, Molly 6-10-03

Phil
Proud papa to:
Brennan (20 mo.)
Jackson, Landon, Molly