Specifically, I am curious if any of you with mixed multiples (like both genders) have had any issues with whom they choose to date.

I have gbg triplets going into 3rd grade. I was reading about birthday parties and it got me to thinking about one of the boys in my daughter's class. It is so cute, he seems to already have feelings for my E. He is a really sweet boy but when he talks to her he just seems to be in this smitten sort of mood....being even sweeter.

He was on my son's sports team a year ago, but at his birthday party this schoolyear he only invited E and not her brother or sister. I figured this was ok since she was in his class and my son wasn't. But when I got there it wasn't one of those just invite the whole class parties (had I known earlier I might have asked that DS be invited too) but one that just certain kids were invited.

Now it looks like the boys are becoming closer friends through cub scouts. That's great since he is a really nice kid from a great family. It just makes me wonder how complicated life could get.

I realize that the crush, or whatever he has on E may not last or ever amount to anything. It did get me thinking, though. It must get a little akward having your twin dating your friends. Would love to hear about how this sort of stuff has worked out in your multiples, if you don't mind sharing.

Thanks,

Andi
g/b/g
8-1/2 yr old triplets
Hoping to have a few more years before they really want to start "dating"